Dear Readers:
My good friend, Mr. Angel Love, has figured out the following guidelines. I personally am very old fashion and dont believe in being sexual with the person Im dating until it becomes serious but I just cant fathom how so many people out there can have sex with so many partners within the same week. I dont judge them, I just cant share my body because I get attached. (Catholic guilt)
Mr. Angel Love's guidelines
So I think being sexually open is fine as long as a couple of "rules"
are met.
1-Honesty- both should be aware that multiple partners are involved and
be accepting of it.
The reality is though that a guy will play and a woman will play along,
thinking that if she behaves she will eventually win him over...never
happens.
2-Saftey- Safe sex/ sanitary and hygenic practices are followed.
3-have f'n fun!
4 - Open is not tantamount to promiscuous, a mistake that many make.
5 - if it's something that is not in you, then never be pressured
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Hmmm. I can't have multiple partners within the same week without feeling terribly guilty either (although I did once or twice back in my wild college days, but I felt horrible about it).
Usually, I wouldn't say that women "intend" to have multiple partners, at least at the beginning. Having sex with the "new" partner is usually something that happens due to the circumstances (alcohol, for example) and isn't necessarily repeated.
Once it becomes clear that someone is going to continue sexual relations with more than one person, honesty is the best policy. However, I daresay that odds are that if a woman honestly discloses this fact, she'll more likely than not lose all of her partners. I don't think men can handle sexually "free" women who have multiple partners.
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