What can you bring to the table?
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question
"What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before
looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said "Yes". She began to expound... "As a woman in this day
and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't
do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the
help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask,
"What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought
that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and
stated, "I am not referring to money".
I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every
aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
explain. She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a
simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked.... believers mixed
with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer; he
needs to believe as I do. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to keep me grounded when I
do go through changes. I don't need a man who is going to purposely bring me
grief. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be
submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me. I cannot be
submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who is "messy"
in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive....but he has to
be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man, I can't help a man if
he can't help himself. If he can't help himself then he definitely can't
help me. When she finished her spiel, she looked at him. He sat there with a
puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot". She replied, "I'm
worth a lot"
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question
"What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before
looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said "Yes". She began to expound... "As a woman in this day
and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't
do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the
help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask,
"What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought
that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and
stated, "I am not referring to money".
I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every
aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
explain. She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a
simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked.... believers mixed
with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer; he
needs to believe as I do. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to keep me grounded when I
do go through changes. I don't need a man who is going to purposely bring me
grief. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be
submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me. I cannot be
submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who is "messy"
in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive....but he has to
be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man, I can't help a man if
he can't help himself. If he can't help himself then he definitely can't
help me. When she finished her spiel, she looked at him. He sat there with a
puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot". She replied, "I'm
worth a lot"
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